life..

have you ever been so generous? you plan to give someone, could be your anyone, something nice.. something you give without any particular intention, all you want is to wish for that someone to enjoy you something you give him/her. what kind of respond do you wish to see from that someone? do you expect some big gratitude, million of thank you’s, or even a single sincere smile? what if that someone is really grateful and be very excited of what you give him/her? will you still plan to give that someone another something?

how if that someone moan and show some refusal in his/her face, though he/she doesn’t show it verbally? what if you get is not what you wish for? will you still plan to give that someone another something?

that might be exactly what happen to us in life.. if we’re willing to be very thankful and enjoy every single thing God give us, then He will plan to give us some more and another something.. but if we continue to moan, to regret, to refuse every single sadness, happiness, failure, success, and other things that come to us, He might be very disappointed and probably will stop giving..

so.. start being thankful and stop moaning… doing your thesis, being left by your advisor, searching for your true love, being not able to have what you wish for.. there must be something behind it.. just be thankful for having those all.. without it, our life might not be the same…

(from and for a friend.. whom i love so much….)